परिहासे करे। नयन कटाक्षी करे। आपो न हाते। परहाते। Thus you must recite the mantra by reciting your wish or obtaining your desire in your mind, then forget about the outcomes. Your regularity is the only thing that could bring you effects. Kamdev Puja has proved to generally be valuable https://www.youtube.com/@Mahavidyabaglamukhi